It is easy for parents to identify their child’s physical needs: nutritious food, warm clothing, and bed time at a reasonable hour. However, a child’s mental and emotional needs may not be so obvious. Good mental health allows children to think clearly, develop socially and learn new skills. Additionally, good friends and encouraging words from adults are all important in helping children develop self confidence, high self-esteem, and a healthy emotional outlook on life. What do children need to foster good emotional health?Unconditional love Love, security and acceptance should be at the heart of family life. Children need to know that your love does not depend on his or her accomplishments. Mistakes and/or defeats should be expected and accepted. Confidence grows in a home that is full of unconditional love and affection. Nurturing self-esteem
Make time for play Encourage Children to Play. To children, play is just fun. However, playtime is as important to their development as food and good care. Playtime helps children (elementary age and middle school age) be creative, learn problem-solving skills and learn self-control. Children Need Playmates. By playing with others, children discover their strengths and weaknesses, develop a sense of belonging, and learn how to get along with others. Parents Can Be Great Playmates. Join the fun! Playing games with a child gives you a great opportunity to share ideas and spend time together in a relaxed setting. Play for Fun. Winning is not as important as being involved and enjoying the activity. One of the most important questions to ask children is “Did you have fun?’’ not “Did you win?” TV and Video Games Should Be Monitored. Try to set some guidelines with TV or video game usage on a regular basis. Provide appropriate guidance & discipline
Remember, the goal is not to control the child, but for him or her to learn self-control! When to seek help Parents and family members are usually the first to notice if a child has problems with emotions or behavior. Your observations, with those of teachers and other caregivers, may lead you to seek help for your child. Warning signs The following signs may indicate the need for professional assistance or evaluation:
If you are concerned about your child's social, emotional, and behavioral health, you may contact:
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WVCSD Elementary school counselingJeanette Myrick, Children Learn What They Live Archives
May 2017
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